Who's bossy?

I don't like being told what to do. I don't like being beckoned(by patrons especially). I don't like having someone capable of doing the job they "ask" me to do sitting/standing or otherwise doing nothing when they "ask." Pretty much I refuse to be ordered around....

So when do orders make me happy? When do orders make me want to do a happy dance?

When they put my brother 30 minutes from where I live instead of several states away!!!